📖 📄 📘 DÌ‐14 ((DÌ [pref to form ordinal numbers] 第)‐(SHÍ·SÌ ten · four → [fourteen] 14) → [14^th]) ZHĀNG (chapter 章)

📖 📄 📘 Zěnyàng (Zěn·yàng what · {pattern → [way]} → [how] 怎样 怎樣) Shǐ ({to make} 使) Jiātíng (Jiā·tíng family · courtyard → [family] 家庭) Měimǎn (Měi·mǎn {beautiful → [very satisfactory]} · full 美满 美滿) Xìngfú (Xìng·fú fortunate · {(having) blessings} 幸福)? 🔼
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📖 📄 📘 Hǎo (good 好) zhàngfu (husband 丈夫) gāi (should 该 該) shì (be 是) zěnyàng (zěn·yàng what · {pattern → [way]} → [how] 怎样 怎樣) de (’s 的)?

📖 📄 📘 Hǎo (good 好) qīzi (qī·zi wife · [suf for nouns] 妻子) gāi (should 该 該) shì (be 是) zěnyàng (zěn·yàng what · {pattern → [way]} → [how] 怎样 怎樣) de (’s 的)?

📖 📄 📘 Rén’ài de (’s 的) fùmǔ (fù·mǔ fathers · mothers 父母) gāi (should 该 該) zěnyàng (zěn·yàng what · {pattern → [way]} → [how] 怎样 怎樣) duìdài háizi (hái·zi children · [suf for nouns] 孩子)?

📖 📄 📘 Érnǚ (Ér·nǚ sons · {girls → [daughters]} 儿女 兒女) kěyǐ (kě·yǐ can · [suf] 可以) zěnyàng (zěn·yàng what · {pattern → [way]} → [how] 怎样 怎樣) wèi (for 为 為/爲) jiātíng (jiā·tíng family · courtyard → [family] 家庭) xìngfú (xìng·fú {good fortune} · blessings → [happiness] 幸福) jìn yì (one 一) fēn lì (power 力)?

📖 📄 📘 1. Jiātíng (Jiā·tíng family · courtyard → [family] 家庭) shēnghuó (shēng·huó life · living 生活) zěnyàng (zěn·yàng what · {pattern → [way]} → [how] 怎样 怎樣) cái ({only then} 才 才/纔) néng (can 能) měimǎn xìngfú (xìng·fú {be fortunate} · {have blessings} → [be happy] 幸福)?

📖 📄 📘 YĒHÉHUÁ (Jehovah 耶和华 耶和華) SHÀNGDÌ (SHÀNG·DÌ above’s · God → [God] 上帝) xīwàng (xī·wàng hopes · {gazes (into the distance at) → [hopes]} → [wishes] 希望) nǐ de ((nǐ you 你) (de ’s 的) → [your]) jiātíng (jiā·tíng family · courtyard → [family] 家庭) měimǎn xìngfú. Tā de Huàyǔ Shèngjīng yǒu xǔduō yōuliáng de jiàohuì, zhǐdǎo jiātíng de chéngyuán zěnyàng jìn zìjǐ de běnfèn. Zhǐyào jiā li rénrén dōu tīngcóng Shàngdì de quàngào, gè jìn běnfèn, jiātíng shēnghuó jiù bìrán huì měimǎn xìngfú. Yēsū shuō: “Fán tīngjian Shàngdì de huàyǔ yòu zūnshǒu de rén, cái zhēn yǒufú!” (Lùjiā Fúyīn 11:28)

📖 📄 📘 2. Yào (want 要) jiātíng (jiā·tíng family · courtyard → [family] 家庭) měimǎn xìngfú (xìng·fú {to be fortunate} · {to have blessings} → [to be happy] 幸福), wǒmen (wǒ·men we · [pl] 我们 我們) jiù (then 就) děi chéngrèn shénme (shén·me what · [suf] 什么 什/甚麼)?

📖 📄 📘 ² Yào (require 要) xiǎng (want 想) jiātíng (jiā·tíng family · courtyard → [family] 家庭) měimǎn xìngfú, wǒmen jiù děi chéngrèn jiātíng shì Yēhéhuá chuànglì de. Yēsū chēng Yēhéhuá wéi “wǒmen zài tiānshang de Fùqin”. (Mǎtài Fúyīn 6:9) Quán kào wǒmen de tiān Fù, shìshang de gège jiātíng cái déyǐ jiànlì, yīncǐ tā bìrán zhīdào jiātíng zěnyàng cái néng měimǎn xìngfú. (Yǐfúsuǒshū 3:14, 15) Nàme, guānyú jiātíng gè chéngyuán de běnfèn, Shèngjīng zěnme shuō ne?

📖 📄 📘 SHÀNGDÌ (SHÀNG·DÌ above’s · God 上帝) CHUÀNGLÌ JIĀTÍNG (JIĀ·TÍNG family · courtyard → [family] 家庭) 🔼

📖 📄 📘 3. Shèngjīng (Shèng·jīng (the) holy · Scriptures → [the Bible] 圣经 聖經) shuō ({does say} 说 說/説) jiātíng (jiā·tíng family · courtyard → [family] 家庭) shì (was 是) zěnyàng (zěn·yàng what · {form → [way]} → [how] 怎样 怎樣) chuànglì de (’s 的)? Wǒmen (wǒ·men we · [pl] 我们 我們) zěnme (zěn·me why · [suf] 怎么 怎麼/麽) zhīdào (zhī·dào know · {(the) way (of)} → [know] 知道) zhèige (zhèi·ge this · [mw] 这个 這個) jìzǎi shì (is 是) zhēnshí de (’s 的)?

📖 📄 📘 ³ Yēhéhuá (Jehovah 耶和华 耶和華) chuàngzàole (chuàng·zào·le initiated · {made, created} · [indicates a change] 创造了 創造了) dì‐yī ((dì [pref to form ordinal numbers] 第)‐(yī one 一) → [first]) duì ({pair of} 对 對) nán‐nǚ Yàdāng hé Xiàwá, ràng tāmen jiē wéi fūfù. Shàngdì bǎ tāmen ānzhì zài dìshang yí ge měilì de jiāyuán li, yě jiùshì Yīdiàn yuán, bìng fēnfu tāmen yào shēng’ér-yùnǚ. Yēhéhuá duì tāmen shuō: “Yào fányǎn zēngduō, biànmǎn dìmiàn”. (Chuàngshìjì 1:26–28; 2:18, 21–24) Zhè jué bú shì shénhuà huò xūgòu de gùshi, yīnwei Yēsū biǎomíng, Chuàngshìjì zhōng guānyú Shàngdì chuànglì jiātíng de jìzǎi shì zhēnshí de. (Mǎtài Fúyīn 19:4, 5) Wǒmen xiànjīn de shēnghuó yǒu hěn duō nántí, gēn Shàngdì yuánběn dìngyì de hěn bù yíyàng. Suīrán rúcǐ, wǒmen réngrán nénggòu xiǎngyǒu měimǎn de jiātíng shēnghuó, ràng wǒmen kànkan lǐyóu hézài.

📖 📄 📘 4. (Jiǎ ({1st of the 10 Heavenly Stems} → [a] 甲)) Jiātíng (Jiā·tíng family · courtyard → [family] 家庭) gè (each 各) chéngyuán zěnyàng zuò, jiù néng shǐ jiātíng xìngfú kuàilè? (Yǐ ({2nd of the 10 Heavenly Stems} → [b] 乙)) Wèishénme (Wèi·shén·me for · what · [suf] → [why] 为什么 為什/甚麼) liúyì Yēsū de shēngpíng yǒuzhù yú jiātíng de xìngfú kuàilè?

📖 📄 📘 ⁴ Zhǐyào (Zhǐ·yào only · requires 只要) jiā (family 家) li (inside 里 裡/裏) měi (each 每) ge ([mw] 个 個/个) rén (person 人) dōu ({each one} 都) xiàofǎ Shàngdì, biǎoxiàn àixīn, jiù néng shǐ jiātíng xìngfú kuàilè. (Yǐfúsuǒshū 5:1, 2) Kěshì, jìrán wǒmen bù kěnéng kànjian Shàngdì, yòu zěnnéng xiàofǎ tā ne? Wǒmen quèshí néng xuéxí Yēhéhuá dàirén de fāngshì, yīnwei tā chāiqiǎn shǒushēng zǐ jiàngshì wéi rén. (Yuēhàn Fúyīn 1:14, 18) Shàngdì de shǒushēng zǐ Yēsū Jīdū zài dìshang shíquán-shíměi de fǎnyìngle tiān Fù de tèzhì, rén kànjian tā jiù děngyú kànjian Yēhéhuá, tīngjian tā de huà jiù děngyú tīngjian Yēhéhuá de huà. (Yuēhàn Fúyīn 14:9) Zhǐyào wǒmen míngbai Yēsū zěnyàng yǐ ài dàirén, bìng xiàng tā xuéxí, jiù kěyǐ wèi jiātíng de kuàilè jìn yì fēn lì.

📖 📄 📘 ZHÀNGFUMEN (ZHÀNGFU·MEN husbands · [pl] 丈夫们 丈夫們) DE (’s 的) DIǍNFÀN 🔼

📖 📄 📘 5, 6. (Jiǎ ({1st of the 10 Heavenly Stems} → [a] 甲)) Cóng (from 从 從) Yēsū (Jesus 耶稣 耶穌) duìdài huìzhòng de fāngshì, zhàngfu kěyǐ xuédào shénme? (Yǐ ({2nd of the 10 Heavenly Stems} → [b] 乙)) Wǒmen (Wǒ·men we · [pl] 我们 我們) bìxū (must 必须 必須) zěnyàng zuò cái néng méng Shàngdì kuānshù?

📖 📄 📘 ⁵ Shèngjīng (Shèng·jīng (the) holy · Scriptures → [the Bible] 圣经 聖經) shuō (says 说 說/説) Yēsū (Jesus 耶稣 耶穌) zěnyàng duìdài méntú, zhàngfu yě gāi zěnyàng duìdài qīzi. Qǐng liúyì Shèngjīng de yǐxià zhōnggào: “Nǐmen zuò zhàngfu de, yào jìxù ài qīzi, zhèngrú Jīdū ài huìzhòng, wèi huìzhòng shěle zìjǐ…zhàoyàng, zhàngfu yīnggāi ài qīzi, hǎoxiàng ài zìjǐ de shēntǐ. Ài qīzi jiùshì ài zìjǐ le. Cónglái méiyǒu rén hènwù zìjǐ de shēntǐ, zhǐhuì wèiyǎng àihù, hǎoxiàng Jīdū duìdài huìzhòng yíyàng”. (Yǐfúsuǒshū 5:23, 25–29)

📖 📄 📘 ⁶ Yēsū (Jesus 耶稣 耶穌) shēn’ài huìzhòng (huì·zhòng congregated · multitude → [congregation] 会众 會眾), wèi (for 为 為/爲) zuò (are 做) zhàngfu (husbands 丈夫) de ({’ (ones)} 的) shùlì wánměi de diǎnfàn. Suīrán méntú yǒu bùshǎo quēdiǎn, Yēsū què “ài tāmen dàodǐ”, gānyuàn wèi tāmen shěmìng. (Yuēhàn Fúyīn 13:1; 15:13) Shèngjīng yě quànmiǎn zuò zhàngfu de, shuō: “Yào ài qīzi, búyào fānù kǔdài tāmen.” (Gēluóxīshū 3:19) Yǒushí qīzi zuòde bùhǎo, zhàngfu kěyǐ zěnyàng shíjiàn shàngshù quàngào ne? Tā yīngdāng jìzhu zìjǐ yě huì fàncuò, hái yào jìzhu, xiǎng méng Shàngdì kuānshù jiù bìxū zěnyàng zuò. Nàme tā yào zěnyàng zuò ne? Jiùshì yào kuānshù nèixiē màofàn tā de rén, bāokuò qīzi zàinèi. Dāngrán, zuò qīzi de yě gāi lèyì kuānshù biéren. (Mǎtài (Matthew 马太 馬太) Fúyīn (Fú·yīn blessings · news 福音) 6:12, 14, 15) Nǐ xiànzài kěyǐ kànchū, wèishénme yǒu rén shuō fūqī ēn’ài zàiyú bǐcǐ kuānshù.

📖 📄 📘 7. Yēsū (Jesus 耶稣 耶穌) zǒngshì (zǒng·shì always · was 总是 總是) gùjí shénme (shén·me what · [suf] 什么 什/甚麼)? Zuò (are 做) zhàngfu (husbands 丈夫) de ({’ (ones)} 的) kěyǐ (kě·yǐ can · [suf] 可以) zěnyàng (zěn·yàng what · {pattern → [way]} → [how] 怎样 怎樣) xiàofǎ (xiào·fǎ imitate · {follow the model of} 效法) Yēsū (Jesus 耶稣 耶穌)?

📖 📄 📘 ⁷ Zhàngfu (husbands 丈夫) yě (also 也) gāi (should 该 該) liúyì, Yēsū zǒngshì tǐtiē méntú, gùjí tāmen de nénglì xiàndù hé shíjì xūyào. Lìrú, dāng méntú shífēn píjuàn de shíhou, Yēsū shuō: “Nǐmen lái, sīxià dào pìjìng de dìfang qù xiē yi xiē.” (Mǎkě Fúyīn 6:30–32) Zhàoyàng, zhàngfu yě gāi tǐtiē qīzi. Shèngjīng shuō qīzi shì “jiào ruò de qìmǐn”, érqiě fēnfu zhàngfu yào “zūnzhòng tāmen”. Wèishénme ne? Yīnwei fūfù dōu tóngyàng lǐngshòule “shēngmìng de fènwài zhī ēn”. (Bǐdé Qiánshū 3:7) Zhàngfu yīngdāng jǐnjì, Shàngdì zhòngshì de shì rén de zhōngxìn, ér bú shì rén de xìngbié. (Shīpiān 101:6)

📖 📄 📘 8. (Jiǎ ({1st of the 10 Heavenly Stems} → [a] 甲)) Wèishénme (Wèi·shén·me for · what · [suf] → [why] 为什么 為什/甚麼) shuō (say 说 說/説) zhàngfu (husband 丈夫) “ài (loving 爱 愛) qīzi (qī·zi wife · [suf for nouns] 妻子) jiùshì (jiù·shì exactly · is 就是) ài (loving 爱 愛) zìjǐ (self 自己)”? (Yǐ ({2nd of the 10 Heavenly Stems} → [b] 乙)) Fūfù chéngwéi (chéng·wéi becoming · {to be} 成为 成為) “yìtǐ” yìwèizhe (yì·wèi·zhe meaning · taste · {is being} → [means] 意味着 意味着/著) shénme (shén·me what · [suf] 什么 什/甚麼)?

📖 📄 📘 ⁸ Shèngjīng (Shèng·jīng (the) holy · Scriptures → [the Bible] 圣经 聖經) shuō (says 说 說/説) zhàngfu (husband 丈夫) “ài qīzi jiùshì ài zìjǐ le”, yīnwei zhèngrú Yēsū zhǐchū, fūfù “búzài shì liǎng ge rén, ér shì yìtǐ le”. (Mǎtài Fúyīn 19:6) Yóuyú zhè yuángù, xìng shēnghuó zhǐkě xiànyú fūfù. (Zhēnyán 5:15–21; Xībóláishū 13:4) Zhǐyào fūfù liǎ dōu wèi duìfāng zhuóxiǎng, gùjí pèi’ǒu de xūyào, jiù nénggòu zài xìng fāngmiàn bǐcǐ mǎnzú. (Gēlínduō Qiánshū 7:3–5) Shèngjīng de yǐxià zhōnggào zhíde shēnsī: “Cónglái méiyǒu rén hènwù zìjǐ de shēntǐ, zhǐhuì wèiyǎng àihù”. Yīncǐ, zhàngfu yīngdāng ài qīzi, xiàng ài zìjǐ yíyàng, jǐnjì zìjǐ bìxū xiàng huìzhòng de yuánshǒu Yēsū Jīdū jiāozhàng. (Yǐfúsuǒshū 5:29; Gēlínduō Qiánshū 11:3)

📖 📄 📘 9. Féilìbǐshū (Féilìbǐ·shū Philippi · book → [Philippians] 腓立比书 腓立比書) 1:8 tándào Yēsū (Jesus 耶稣 耶穌) de (’ 的) shénme (shén·me what · [suf] 什么 什/甚麼) tèzhì (tè·zhì particular · quality 特质 特質)? Wèishénme (Wèi·shén·me for · what · [suf] → [why] 为什么 為什/甚麼) zhàngfu (husbands 丈夫) yīnggāi (should 应该 應該) duì (towards 对 對) qīzi (qī·zi wives · [suf for nouns] 妻子) xiǎnchū wēnqíng?

📖 📄 📘 ⁹ Shǐtú Bǎoluó (Paul 保罗 保羅) tándào “Jīdū (Jī·dū foundation · {directing (person)} → [Christ] 基督) Yēsū (Jesus 耶稣 耶穌) nàyàng (nà·yàng that · kind 那样 那樣) de (’s 的) wēnqíng”. (Féilìbǐshū 1:8) Yēsū liúlù wēnqíng, lìng rén ānshū, Jīdūtú fùnǚ dōu shēnshòu dǎdòng. (Yuēhàn Fúyīn 20:1, 11–13, 16) Zuò qīzi de dōu kěwàng zhàngfu duì tāmen xiǎnchū wēnqíng.

📖 📄 📘 QĪZIMEN (QĪ·ZI·MEN wives · [suf for nouns] · [pl] 妻子们 妻子們) DE (’s 的) DIǍNFÀN 🔼

📖 📄 📘 10. Zuò (are 做) qīzi (qī·zi wives · [suf for nouns] 妻子) de ({’s (ones)} 的) kěyǐ (kě·yǐ can · [suf] 可以) zěnyàng (zěn·yàng what · {pattern → [way]} → [how] 怎样 怎樣) xiàofǎ (xiào·fǎ imitate · {follow the model of} 效法) Yēsū (Jesus 耶稣 耶穌)?

📖 📄 📘 ¹⁰ Gēn (with 跟) rènhé (rèn·hé {no matter} · what → [any] 任何) zǔzhī (zǔ·zhī organized · woven (system) → [organization] 组织 組織) yíyàng (yí·yàng {(of) one} · {pattern → [way]} → [the same way] 一样 一樣), jiātíng bìxū yǒu rén lǐngdǎo, cái néng yùnzuò shùnchàng. Jíshǐ shì Yēsū, yě yào shùnfú Shàngdì de lǐngdǎo quán. Shèngjīng shuō, “Shàngdì shì Jīdū de tóu”, zhèngrú “nánrén shì nǚrén de tóu”. (Gēlínduō Qiánshū 11:3) Yēsū shùnfú Shàngdì de lǐngdǎo quán, shì wǒmen de hǎo bǎngyàng, yīnwei rénrén dōu bìxū shùnfú mǒu fāngmiàn de lǐngdǎo quán.

📖 📄 📘 11. Qīzi (Qī·zi wife · [suf for nouns] 妻子) yīnggāi (should 应该 應該) duì (towards 对 對) zhàngfu (husband 丈夫) biǎoxiàn (biǎo·xiàn show · display 表现 表現) zěnyàng (zěn·yàng what · kind 怎样 怎樣) de (’s 的) tàidu (tài·du state · degree → [attitude] 态度 態度)? Tā de ((Tā her 她) (de ’s 的) → [her]) hǎo (good 好) pǐnxíng kěnéng (kě·néng maybe · {being able} → [possibly] 可能) huì (will 会 會) yǒu (have 有) shénme (shén·me what · [suf] 什么 什/甚麼) chéngguǒ?

📖 📄 📘 ¹¹ Dāngrán, zhàngfu (husbands 丈夫) shì (are 是) bùwánměi (bù·wán·měi not · complete · beautiful → [imperfect] 不完美) de (’s 的), nánmiǎn huì fàncuò, shícháng dábudào lǐxiǎng jiāzhǔ de biāozhǔn. Jìrán rúcǐ, qīzi gāi zěnyàng zuò ne? Qīzi bùgāi miǎoshì zhàngfu, huò shìtú duóqǔ tā de lǐngdǎo quán. Qīzi zuìhǎo jǐnjì, zài Shàngdì yǎn zhōng, “ānjìng wēnhé de xīnlíng” shì jí bǎoguì de. (Bǐdé Qiánshū 3:4) Jíshǐ chǔjìng fēicháng jiānnán, zhǐyào qīzi bǎochí ānjìng wēnhé, jiù huì bǐjiào róngyì zūncóng Shàngdì de fēnfu shùnfú zhàngfu le. Cǐwài, Shèngjīng shuō: “Qīzi yě gāi shēnshēn zūnjìng zhàngfu.” (Yǐfúsuǒshū 5:33) Kěshì, zhàngfu rúguǒ bù jiēshòu Jīdū de lǐngdǎo, qīzi yòu gāi zěnme bàn ne? Shèngjīng quànmiǎn qīzi, shuō: “Yào shùnfú zìjǐ de zhàngfu. Zhèyàng, jíshǐ zhàngfu bù fúcóng shénshèng de huàyǔ, nǐmen yěxǔ néng jièzhe zìjǐ de pǐnxíng gǎnhuà zhàngfu, yòngbúzhao yìyán-yìyǔ, yīnwei zhàngfu qīnyǎn kànjian nǐmen pǐnxíng zhēnjié, érqiě shēnshēn zūnzhòng tāmen.” (Bǐdé Qiánshū 3:1, 2)

📖 📄 📘 12. Wèishénme (Wèi·shén·me for · what · [suf] → [why] 为什么 為什/甚麼) qīzi (qī·zi wife · [suf for nouns] 妻子) zūnjìng de biǎodá yìjian méiyǒu (méi·yǒu not · {is having} 没有 沒有) shénme (shén·me {what → [any]} · [suf] 什么 什/甚麼) búduì?

📖 📄 📘 ¹² Yàoshi (Yào·shi if · {(it) is (that)} 要是) qīzi (qī·zi wife · [suf for nouns] 妻子) gēn (with 跟) zhàngfu (husband 丈夫) yìjian bùtóng, nàme wúlùn zhàngfu shì bu shì xìntú, qīzi dōu kěyǐ wǎnzhuǎn détǐ de biǎodá yìjian, zhèyàng zuò bù děngyú bù zūnzhòng zhàngfu. Qīzi de yìjian yěxǔ shì duì de, rúguǒ zhàngfu jiēshòu, quánjiā dōu huì déyì. Yàbólāhǎn de qīzi Sālā wèile jiějué jiā li de mǒu ge wèntí, tíchūle qièhé shíjì de jiànyì, Yàbólāhǎn què bù tóngyì. Kěshì, Shàngdì duì Yàbólāhǎn shuō: “Tīng Sālā de huà ba”. (Chuàngshìjì (Chuàng·shì·jì {initiating, creating of} · world · record → [Genesis] 创世纪 創世紀) 21:9–12) Dāngrán, zhǐyào zhàngfu zuìzhōng de juédìng gēn Shàngdì de jièmìng méiyǒu dǐchù, qīzi jiù yīngdāng shùnfú zhàngfu, zhīchí tā de juédìng. (Shǐtú Xíngzhuàn 5:29; Yǐfúsuǒshū 5:24)

📖 📄 📘 13. (Jiǎ ({1st of the 10 Heavenly Stems} → [a] 甲)) Tíduōshū (Tíduō·shū Titus · book 提多书 提多書) 2:4, 5 quàn yǐhūn de (’s 的) fùnǚ zěnyàng (zěn·yàng what · {pattern → [way]} → [how] 怎样 怎樣) zuò ({to do} 做)? (Yǐ ({2nd of the 10 Heavenly Stems} → [b] 乙)) Guānyú fēnjū hé líhūn, Shèngjīng zěnyàng shuō?

📖 📄 📘 ¹³ Qīzi (Qī·zi wife · [suf for nouns] 妻子) jìn zìjǐ (self 自己) de (’s 的) běnfèn, nénggòu zài xǔduō fāngmiàn zàofú jiārén. Lìrú, Shèngjīng shuō yǐhūn de fùnǚ “yào ài zhàngfu, ài érnǚ, sīxiǎng jiànquán, zhēnjié, chíjiā‐yǒudào, liángshàn, shùnfú zìjǐ de zhàngfu”. (Tíduōshū 2:4, 5) Qīzi tīngcóng yǐshàng quàngào, zuò ge xiánqī‐liángmǔ, nénggòu yíngdé jiārén shēnzhì de ài hé zūnzhòng. (Zhēnyán (Zhēn·yán admonishing · sayings → [Proverbs] 箴言) 31:10, 28) Yóuyú fūfù dōu bùwánměi, yǒushí kěnéng huì fāshēng yìxiē yánzhòng de wèntí, dǎozhì fēnjū huò líhūn. Suīrán Shèngjīng róngxǔ rén zài mǒuxiē qíngkuàng xià gēn pèi’ǒu fēnjū, dàn rén yě bù yīnggāi qīngshuài de zuò zhèige juédìng, yīnwei Shèngjīng quàngào shuō: “Qīzi bùgāi líkāi zhàngfu…zhàngfu yě bùgāi líkāi qīzi.” (Gēlínduō Qiánshū 7:10, 11) Cǐwài, gēnjù Shèngjīng de biāozhǔn, wéidú pèi’ǒu fànle yínluàn, qīngbái de yìfāng cái kěyǐ xuǎnzé líhūn. (Mǎtài Fúyīn 19:9)

📖 📄 📘 FÙMǓMEN (FÙ·MǓ·MEN fathers · mothers · [pl] 父母们 父母們) DE (’s 的) DIǍNFÀN 🔼

📖 📄 📘 14. Yēsū (Jesus 耶稣 耶穌) zěnyàng (zěn·yàng what · {pattern → [way]} → [how] 怎样 怎樣) duìdài xiǎoháir (xiǎo·háir {little → [young]} · children 小孩)? Érnǚ (Ér·nǚ sons · {girls → [daughters]} 儿女 兒女) xūyào (need 需要) shénme (shén·me what · [suf] 什么 什/甚麼)?

📖 📄 📘 ¹⁴ Guānyú (Guān·yú relating · to 关于 關於) zěnyàng (zěn·yàng what · {pattern → [way]} → [how] 怎样 怎樣) duìdài háizi (hái·zi children · [suf for nouns] 孩子), fùmǔmen yīnggāi xiàofǎ Yēsū de wánměi bǎngyàng. Yǒu yí cì, méntú shìtú zǔzhǐ yìxiē xiǎoháir jiējìn Yēsū, Yēsū què shuō: “Ràng xiǎoháir dào wǒ zhèlǐ lái, búyào zhìzhǐ tāmen”. Shèngjīng jìshù, Yēsū jiēzhe “yòng bìbǎng lǒuzhe háizi, ànshǒu zhùfú tāmen”. (Mǎkě Fúyīn 10:13–16) Jìrán Yēsū dōu lèyì chōukòng qīnjìn xiǎoháir, fùmǔ bú shì yě gāi zhàoyàng chōukòng péibàn érnǚ ma? Érnǚ xūyào de, bú shì fùmǔ ǒu’ěr de guānzhù, ér shì fùmǔ búduàn de àihù. Fùmǔ bìxū fùchū shíjiān jiàodǎo érnǚ, yīnwei zhè shì Yēhéhuá fēnfu de (’s 的). (Shēnmìngjì (Shēn·mìng·jì states · commands · record → [Deuteronomy] 申命记 申命記) 6:4–9)

📖 📄 📘 15. Fùmǔ (Fù·mǔ fathers · mothers 父母) kěyǐ (kě·yǐ can · [suf] 可以) zěnyàng (zěn·yàng what · {pattern → [way]} → [how] 怎样 怎樣) bǎohù (protect 保护 保護) háizi (hái·zi children · [suf for nouns] 孩子)?

📖 📄 📘 ¹⁵ Xiànjīn shìfēng‐rìxià, dàodé bàihuài, háizi (hái·zi children · [suf for nouns] 孩子) hěn ({very much} 很) xūyào (need 需要) fùmǔ de bǎohù, yǐmiǎn bèi huàirén shānghài, lìrú zāo rén xìng qīnfàn. Qǐng xiǎngxiang Yēsū zěnyàng jìnlì bǎohù méntú: Tā shēn’ài méntú, qīnqiè de chēng tāmen wéi “háizimen”, dāng tā bèi rén dàibǔ, kuài zāo shāhài de shíhou, réng shèfǎ ràng méntú táoshēng. (Yuēhàn Fúyīn 13:33; 18:7–9) Nǐmen zuò fùmǔ de bìxū tígāo jǐngjué, yǐfáng Móguǐ shānghài nǐmen de érnǚ. Yào jízǎo gàojiè érnǚ, jiào tāmen bìkāi wēixiǎn.* (Bǐdé Qiánshū 5:8) Jīntiān, háizimen zài shēntǐ, língxìng, dàodé, děng fāngmiàn suǒ shòu de wēixié shì qián‐suǒ‐wèi‐jiàn de.

📖 📄 📘 16. Cóng (from 从 從) Yēsū (Jesus 耶稣 耶穌) jiūzhèng méntú (mén·tú {school of thought} · disciples 门徒 門徒) de (’ 的) fāngshì (fāng·shì direction · style → [way] 方式), fùmǔ (fù·mǔ fathers · mothers 父母) kěyǐ (kě·yǐ can · [suf] 可以) xuédào (xué·dào learn · {arriving at} 学到 學到) shénme (shén·me what · [suf] 什么 什/甚麼)?

📖 📄 📘 ¹⁶ Zài (on 在) Yēsū (Jesus 耶稣 耶穌) línsǐ qián ({before (that)} 前) de (’s 的) nèige (nèi·ge that · [mw] 那个 那個/个) wǎnshang, méntú (mén·tú {school of thought} · disciples 门徒 門徒) zhēnglùn jiūjìng shéi zuìdà. Yēsū bìng méiyǒu yīn méntú zhèyàng zuò ér shēngqì, fǎn’ér jìxù rén’ài de yòng yánxíng quàndǎo tāmen. (Lùjiā Fúyīn 22:24–27; Yuēhàn Fúyīn 13:3–8) Rúguǒ nǐ wéi rén fùmǔ, nǐ zhīdào zěnyàng xiàofǎ Yēsū jiūzhèng érnǚ ma? Érnǚ gùrán yào guǎnjiào, dàn guǎnjiào yě yào “shìdù”. Qiānwàn búyào zài shèngnù xià jiàoxun érnǚ, lìrú lǔmǎng de shuō yìxiē “rú dāo cì rén” de huà. (Yēlìmǐshū 30:11; Zhēnyán 12:18) Fùmǔ yīnggāi yòng qiàdàng de fāngshì guǎnjiào érnǚ, wùqiú shǐ érnǚ rìhòu nénggòu kànchū suǒ shòu de guǎnjiào shì hélǐ de. (Yǐfúsuǒshū 6:4; Xībóláishū 12:9–11)

📖 📄 📘 ÉRNǙMEN (ÉR·NǙ·MEN sons · {girls → [daughters]} · [pl] 儿女们 兒女們) DE (’s 的) DIǍNFÀN 🔼

📖 📄 📘 17. Zuò (are 做) érnǚ (ér·nǚ sons · {girls → [daughters]} 儿女 兒女) de ({’s (ones)} 的) kěyǐ (kě·yǐ can 可以) zài (at 在) něi (which 哪) fāngmiàn (fāng·miàn sides · faces → [aspects] 方面) xiàofǎ (xiào·fǎ imitate · {follow the model of} 效法) Yēsū (Jesus 耶稣 耶穌)?

📖 📄 📘 ¹⁷ Zuò (are 做) érnǚ (ér·nǚ sons · {girls → [daughters]} 儿女 兒女) de ({’s (ones)} 的) yě (also 也) kěyǐ (kě·yǐ can · [suf] 可以) xiàng Yēsū xuéxí ma? Dāngrán kěyǐ! Yēsū de bǎngyàng biǎomíng, érnǚ yīngdāng fúcóng fùmǔ. Yēsū zhǐchū: “Wǒ shuō de zhèixiē huà, gēn Fùqin jiàodǎo wǒ de yíyàng. …Wǒ shíkè zuò tā xǐyuè de shì.” (Yuēhàn Fúyīn 8:28, 29) Yēsū fúcóng tiān Fù, Shèngjīng yě fēnfu zuò érnǚ de yào fúcóng fùmǔ. (Yǐfúsuǒshū (Yǐfúsuǒ·shū Ephesus · book → [Ephesians] 以弗所书 以弗所書) 6:1–3) Suīrán Yēsū shì wánměi de, tā dìshang de fùmǔ Yuēsè hé Mǎlìyà zé shì bùwánměi de, Yēsū xiǎo shíhou què fúcóng fùmǔ. Yēsū zhèyàng zuò bìdìng shǐ quán jiā dōu gǎndào kuàilè! (Lùjiā Fúyīn 2:4, 5, 51, 52)

📖 📄 📘 18. Wèishénme (Wèi·shén·me for · what · [suf] → [why] 为什么 為什/甚麼) Yēsū (Jesus 耶稣 耶穌) zǒngshì (zǒng·shì always · was 总是 總是) fúcóng (obeying 服从 服從) tiān (heavenly 天) Fù (Father 父)? Érnǚ (Ér·nǚ sons · {girls → [daughters]} 儿女 兒女) fúcóng (obeying 服从 服從) fùmǔ (fù·mǔ fathers · mothers 父母) huì (will 会 會) lìng (make 令) shéi (whom 谁 誰) shēngǎn xīnxǐ?

📖 📄 📘 ¹⁸ Zuò (are 做) érnǚ (ér·nǚ sons · {girls → [daughters]} 儿女 兒女) de ({’s (ones)} 的) néng (can 能) bùnéng (bù·néng not · can 不能) jìnyíbù xiàofǎ Yēsū, lìng fùmǔ xīnxǐ ne? Niánqīngrén yǒushí quèshí huì juéde, fúcóng fùmǔ bìng bù róngyì, dàn Shàngdì xīwàng zuò érnǚ de dōu tīngcóng fùmǔ. (Zhēnyán 1:8; 6:20) Yēsū zǒngshì fúcóng tiān Fù, jíshǐ miànduì kùnnan yě bù lìwài. Dāng Shàngdì yào Yēsū zhíxíng yí jiàn fēicháng jiānjù de rènwu, Yēsū xiàng Shàngdì dǎogào shuō: “Qiú nǐ wèi wǒ chèqu zhèige bēi [Shàngdì tèdìng de zhǐyì].” Búguò, Yēsū réngrán tīngcóng Shàngdì de fēnfu, yīnwei tā shēnzhī tiān Fù hěn qīngchu zěnyàng zuò cái shì zuìhǎo de. (Lùjiā Fúyīn 22:42) Zuò érnǚ de nǔlì xuéxí fúcóng, jiù néng lìng fùmǔ hé tiān Fù dōu shēngǎn xīnxǐ.* (Zhēnyán (Zhēn·yán admonishing · sayings → [Proverbs] 箴言) 23:22–25)

📖 📄 📘 19. (Jiǎ ({1st of the 10 Heavenly Stems} → [a] 甲)) Sādàn (Satan 撒但) zěnyàng (zěn·yàng what · {pattern → [way]} → [how] 怎样 怎樣) yǐnyòu (yǐn·yòu {does draw} · {does entice} → [does tempt] 引诱 引誘) niánqīngrén? (Yǐ ({2nd of the 10 Heavenly Stems} → [b] 乙)) Jiǎrú érnǚ zuòle búdàodé de shì, fùmǔ huì yǒu shénme gǎnjué?

📖 📄 📘 ¹⁹ Jìrán (Jì·rán since · -ly 既然) Móguǐ (Mó·guǐ devil · demon → [Devil] 魔鬼) céng (had 曾) yǐnyòu (yǐn·yòu drawn · enticed → [tempted] 引诱 引誘) Yēsū (Jesus 耶稣 耶穌), wǒmen kěyǐ kěndìng, Móguǐ yě jué búhuì fàngguo niánqīngrén, yídìng huì qiānfāng‐bǎijì de yǐnyòu tāmen fàncuò. (Mǎtài Fúyīn 4:1–10) Móguǐ Sādàn huì lìyòng tóngbèi xiàng niánqīngrén shīyā, zhèi zhǒng yālì bù róngyì yìngfu. Yīncǐ, niánqīngrén bìxū bìmiǎn gēn xǐhuan zuò’è de rén láiwang! (Gēlínduō Qiánshū 15:33) Yǎgè de nǚ’ér Dǐná chángcháng gēn bù chóngbài Yēhéhuá de rén láiwang, jiéguǒ rěle hěn duō máfan. (Chuàngshìjì 34:1, 2) Xiǎngxiang kàn: Jiǎrú jiā li yǒu rén zuòle yínluàn de shì, qítā jiārén huì duōme tòngxīn! (Zhēnyán 17:21, 25)

📖 📄 📘 JIĀTÍNG (JIĀ·TÍNG family · courtyard → [family] 家庭) XÌNGFÚ (XÌNG·FÚ {good fortune} · blessings → [happiness] 幸福) DE (’ 的) GUĀNJIÀN 🔼

📖 📄 📘 20. Yào ({(if we) want} 要) xiǎngyǒu (xiǎng·yǒu {to enjoy} · {to have} 享有) měimǎn (měi·mǎn {beautiful → [very satisfactory]} · full 美满 美滿) de (’s 的) jiātíng (jiā·tíng family · courtyard → [family] 家庭) shēnghuó (shēng·huó life · living 生活), jiā (family 家) li (inside 里 裡/裏) gèrén (gè·rén each · person 各人) jiù (then 就) bìxū (must 必须 必須) zěnyàng (zěn·yàng what · {pattern → [way]} → [how] 怎样 怎樣) zuò (do 做)?

📖 📄 📘 ²⁰ Zhǐyào (Zhǐ·yào only · requires 只要) shíjiàn (shí·jiàn {to be solid} · {walking → [carrying out]} → [applying] 实践 實踐) Shèngjīng (Shèng·jīng (the) holy · Scriptures → [the Bible] 圣经 聖經) de (’s 的) quàngào (quàn·gào advising · telling → [counsel] 劝告 勸告), jiātíng (jiā·tíng family · courtyard → [family] 家庭) wèntí jiù bǐjiào róngyì jiějué. Shìshí shang, jiātíng xìngfú de guānjiàn zàiyú shíjiàn Shèngjīng de quàngào. Yīncǐ, zuò zhàngfu de, nǐmen yào ài qīzi, duìdài qīzi jiù xiàng Yēsū duìdài huìzhòng nàyàng. Zuò qīzi de, nǐmen yào shùnfú zhàngfu de lǐngdǎo quán, xiàofǎ Zhēnyán 31 zhāng 10 zhì 31 jié suǒ miáoshù de xiánqī. Zuò fùmǔ de, nǐmen yào jiàodǎo érnǚ. (Zhēnyán 22:6) Zuò fùqin de, nǐmen yào “shànyú dūdǎo zìjǐ de jiā”. (Tímótài Qiánshū 3:4, 5; 5:8) Zuò érnǚ de, nǐmen yào fúcóng fùmǔ. (Gēluóxīshū 3:20) Jìrán jiā li měi ge rén dōu shì bùwánměi de, rénrén dōu huì fàncuò, yīncǐ yào qiānbēi de bǐcǐ kěnqiú kuānshù.

📖 📄 📘 21. Wǒmen (Wǒ·men we · [pl] 我们 我們) xiǎngyǒu (xiǎng·yǒu enjoy · have 享有) shénme (shén·me what · [suf] 什么 什/甚麼) měihǎo (měi·hǎo beautiful · good 美好) de (’s 的) qiánjǐng? Xiànjīn (Xiàn·jīn {appearing → [at present]} · now 现今 現今) wǒmen (wǒ·men we · [pl] 我们 我們) zěnyàng (zěn·yàng what · {pattern → [way]} → [how] 怎样 怎樣) zuò (do 做) jiù (then 就) néng ({will be able} 能) xiǎngyǒu (xiǎng·yǒu {to enjoy} · {to have} 享有) xìngfú (xìng·fú fortunate · {(having) blessings} → [happy] 幸福) de (’s 的) jiātíng (jiā·tíng family · courtyard → [family] 家庭) shēnghuó (shēng·huó life · living 生活)?

📖 📄 📘 ²¹ Shèngjīng (Shèng·jīng (the) holy · Scriptures → [the Bible] 圣经 聖經) jiù (regarding 就) jiātíng (jiā·tíng family · courtyard → [family] 家庭) shēnghuó (shēng·huó life · living 生活) quèshí tígōngle hěn duō bǎoguì de quàngào hé zhǐyǐn. Shèngjīng yě biǎomíng, zài Shàngdì de xīn shìjiè li, dìqiú huì chéngwéi lèyuán, suǒyǒu rén dōu shì Yēhéhuá de kuàilè zǐmín. (Qǐshìlù 21:3, 4) Qiánjǐng duōme měihǎo! Jíshǐ zài xiànjīn, zhǐyào wǒmen yándú Shèngjīng, shíjiàn qízhōng de quàngào, jiù néng xiǎngyǒu xìngfú de jiātíng shēnghuó.